Bukan song for the day

But this one is for my entire life Thank you sayang for dedicating this song to me Sayang awak soulmate yang paling sweet!
Virtual hugs & kisses from Yours Truly XOXO

A night at Sunway

In picture, Akashah (my sis's fiancee & oso my bakal abang ipar)

heh heh im trying sooo hard to panggil him abang akashah rite now

but still belum get used to.

Kadang2 terkeluar juga kasha! oh akashah!

& my sister, Munira

Oh and kat belakang tu mama sayang posing maut! hihi

Papa pun ada yang macam bantal besar sebelah mama tu.

Papa not feeling well that day :(

Mamapapa dapat 1 night complimentary stay @ Sunway Hotel

Seperti yang anda lihat, kami bertiga kacau daun menyibuk je

Macam ni la one day if dah ada anak-anak kot. Nak berdua pun tak boleh ;p

Eh kenapa you pakai tudung sekarang?

Sorry gambar yang ini nampak macam hantu sikit :p

Hello people, as you guys can see the title of this post, itulah yang saya akan cuba terangkan. Siapa-siapa yang pernah tanya, I'm sure these are the quite similar answers I've gave you:

1. Smile :)

2. Sajeeee dan smile lagi :)

3. Kita rasa nak pakai

4. Kita memang nak pakai

5. Jawapan yang famous sekali -> Ketawa kecil dan sengeh

I was so new in that situation at that time, so I don't really know how to express it even though I know apa saya experienced. This is because I was sooo worried about people's thought on the new me. But now I already get used to any reactions. It doesn't even bothers me anymore. Because to me, I know what's best for me. For those who've been so curious & questioned me before, thank you so much & to those yang tertanya-tanya dalam hati sahaja but tak pernah berkata-kata, it's okay. Next time jangan malu-malu segan silu tau. Tanya je everything. Im very open to share with you.

Ramai juga yang tanya I pakai tudung sebab BF suruh ke? Eh tak lah mane ada. Dulu memang BF pernah cadangkan tapi masa tu I senyum-senyum je (kire tak mahu la tu). Sekarang pulak I yang kene perli dia cakap macam ni. "Eh, dulu I suruh pakai tudung tak nak, nak tunggu kawin la, apa la, ni kenapa tiba-tiba you nak pakai ni?". Ape lagi, I sengeh-sengeh la as usual.

Ok lah enough membebel. Let me answer the question clearer. It's very simple. Its because I personally want to wear it. No pressure from any family members/friends at all. There's this 'I must cover my hair' feelings came to me. This is what I want.

Macam-macam reaction I dapat. Mostly sume funny reaction. Next post or next next or next next next post nanti I'll ceritakan ok. Love you people!

Will continue bloging soon! ;)

RADIOMANUAL

Image above done by Ezadnazryn Rosli

Cover album ke ni sayang? I pun not sure

Apa-apa pun, it's lawa sayang! Good job!

To find out more about RADIOMANUAL, click here

LIPSTICK INFORMATION

Something to consider. Next time you go shopping for lipstick. This comes from someone who works in the breast cancer unit at Mt. Sinai Hospital, in Toronto .

If there is a female you care anything about, do share this with her.I am also sharing this with the males, because they need to tell the females they care about as well!

Recently a lipstick brand called 'Red Earth', decreased their prices from $67 to $9.90. It contained lead. Lead is a chemical which causes cancer.

The lipstick brands that contain lead are:

CHRISTIAN DIOR

LANCÔME

CLINIQUE

Y.S.L

ESTEE LAUDER

SHISEIDO

RED EARTH (Lip Gloss)

CHANEL (Lip Conditioner)

MARKET AMERICA-MOTNES LIPSTICK

The higher the lead content, the greater the chance of causing cancer. After doing a test on lipsticks, It was found that the Y.S.L. Lipstick contained the most amount of lead. Watch out for those lipsticks which are supposed to stay longer. If your lipstick stays longer, it is because of the higher content of lead.

Here is the test you can do yourself:
1. Put some lipstick on your hand.
2. Use a Gold ring to scratch on the lipstick.
3. If the lipstick color changes to black.

Then you know the lipstick contains lead. This information is being circulated at Walter Reed Army Medical Centre.

To Die For

Prolongé Floral Collection - High Waisted Pants MYR42.00

Check out this new baby from DULCET, Kuala Lumpur

Me myself fall in love with this piece

It give u the casual yet elegant look

The pants give you a look of wearing a skirt

This make this piece perfect for a beach day

Worries free when wind blows!

30sen

Location: Tanah Merah, Kelantan

By: Ezadnazryn

AIDILFITRI @ NIK's PLACE

Photo #1: Selipar2 tetamu Nik (two uitm's van, fara kuda's car & beberapa motorcycles)

Photo #2: Yes, Amalina & I memang suka berpegangan tangan

Photo #3: Fatin Alya sedang sibuk menjamu selera

Photo #4: Ketua kelas kami, Mamat yang tersengih2 kegembiraan makan frrree

(psss.. yang kat belakang baju hitam tu IzzatNazrin Rosli tercinta)

Photo #5: Rakan-rakan yang teruja dengan kereta Jusoh

Left to right- Amalina, Uyu, Fatimah

Bukan class photo. Bercampur aduk semua.

Yang paling menyerlah yang merah 2 orang kat belakang tu

Kaka & Sheikh, muka korang gila sama. Confirm kawen la tu!! Hehe ;)

Not to forget Tuan Rumah yang bertudung hitam baju belang2 merah putih

yang tengah buat peace tu Thank You Soooo Much Nik & family!! <3

One sleepy yet fun morning!

One sleepy yet fun morning with Adam.

10am, Adam ketuk pintu nak tengok Rose.

Tengok2 Rose pun tidur lagi.

So we decided to play with Photobooth.

Adam's favourite effects is Mirror!

We end up laughing & having a great fun morning together!

Spanking Undermines Discipline - Loving Alternatives -

"It's not nice to hit people; children are people."

Parents hitting their children has been accepted as a form of discipline in our society for so long that some parents can't imagine that it is possible to discipline children without hitting them. We have learned that not only is it possible to discipline children without hitting them, but it is impossible to discipline children by hitting them. Making children feel worse does not make them behave better. Dr. Daniel F. Whiteside, former Assistant Surgeon General, reported that, "Corporal punishment of children actually interferes with the process of learning and with their optimal development as socially responsible adults. We feel that it is important for public health workers, teachers and others concerned for the emotional and physical health of children and youth to support the adoption of alternative methods for the achievement of self-control and responsible behavior in children and adolescents."

When most of us were growing up, it was believed that as long as the hitting did no permanent physical damage, the physical punishment would "teach us a lesson." Although the words punishment and discipline are often used as if they mean the same things, punishment and discipline are very different. Punishment is defined as arbitrary harsh treatment for wrong doing. Discipline means to teach. The only "lessons" we teach children when we hit them are to hit, fear, and distrust those who hit them.

Most parents intend to teach their children to be courteous, respectful, responsible, kind and loving. Children learn most from imitating what they see us do. Since hitting is not courteous, respectful, responsible, kind or loving, how can we possibly expect to teach our children those things by hitting them? Hitting is punishment, not discipline. Punishing children doesn't teach them why their behavior was unacceptable or what they should do instead. Punishment is meant to deter children from repeating the behavior by being painful or unpleasant enough to cause the child to want to avoid being punished again. In theory, this method may sound effective, but in reality, being punished causes children to think more about the wrong that was done to them than the wrong they did.

The goal of parental discipline is to teach children self-discipline. If the only reason children have for not doing something wrong is the threat of being punished, then what guidelines will they have for acceptable behavior when no one is there to punish them? Hitting children when we catch them doing something wrong doesn't teach them how to do what's right; it teaches them that they need to be sneaky and to lie to avoid being caught.

Hitting children not only hurts their bodies, it hurts their hearts and minds. Instead of giving them the message that what they did was bad, being hit causes children to believe that they are bad. Research shows that children who are hit have lower self-esteem than children who are not hit. There is even some evidence from a British study that children who are hit may be less able to learn because physical punishments reduce children's IQ. Being hit triggers the fight or flight response in human beings. When we are hit, our rational thinking shuts down. All we can think about is hitting back or running away to protect ourselves. If we can't think about why what we did was wrong, we can't learn the right thing to do either. Most adults who were hit as children tell us that while they remember being hit, they don't remember why. This is more evidence that hitting fails as a form of discipline or teaching.

While not all people who were hit as children grow up to be hitters, all adults who hit grew up either being hit or witnessing hitting. When an adult hits another adult we call it assault. When a husband or wife hits the other we call it battering. When a big kid hits a little kid we call it bullying. When a parent hits a child we call it spanking. No matter what name we give it - a swat, slap, tap or spank, it is hitting. When the adults in a family hit each other we call it domestic violence. Why then, when the adults hit the children in the family, do we call it discipline? Nowhere else in our society is hitting considered acceptable. Isn't all hitting violence?

In spite of the fact that we now know hitting children does not teach them acceptable behavior but damages them emotionally, intellectually and physically, many children are still being hit in the name of discipline. When talking to parents in parenting workshops about why parents hit, I found three answers most common:

1. "I was brought up to believe that it is my right to hit my children when they misbehave and that it's the only way to make them mind."
2. "Until now I didn't know there was anything wrong with hitting them. My parents hit me and I just thought that's what you do to discipline your kids."
3. "I know it's not good to hit your kids, but sometimes I get angry and frustrated and I don't know what else to do."